About 18 months ago, Ford Harding and I had a "fight."
Well, we agreed to disagree in public, in advance.
Our disagreement was real; it was our bickering that was trumped up. Once we got started, we both got into it with spirit and good humor, and had fun doing it. We were hoping we could stimulate some important discussion. We didn't really get any comments on our blogs. But recently I learned there had been a significant amount of behind-the-scenes chatter about our "tiff."
People thought we didn't like each other.
Today, Ford and I are laughing about this. But we are also a bit surprised that our "fight" would be remembered, not the points we were trying to make.
Cyberspace conversations do indeed take on a life of their own, even if it doesn't appear that way at first. I knew this, intellectually, but even I was surprised by perceptions I never thought we could set in motion.
People are naturally intrigued by "public" disagreement. While Ford and I may have been unsuccessful at stimulating conversation in the blogosphere, we certainly did so in people's real lives.
What does this situation say about the power of opposition? By expressing our opposing views, can we help others learn, clarify their own perspectives, or make changes? Could expressions of alternative perceptions actually be useful to marketers and business developers?
Could we use our unique viewpoints to help break down the silos that exist in professional firms' marketing and business development?
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